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The Flip Side

The Flip Side My first blog post in quite a long time. I only really add to the blog when I feel like I have something to say. I could endlessly ramble on in my Instagram stories, but I know most people who appear as if they have seen your story, don't actually listen to it, so it's kind of like shouting into the void.  This is why I've decided to write my feelings as a blog post entitled The Flip Side. The Flip Side refers to the flipping of an image, which can present 2 completely different people. We have the mirror image, which is how we see ourselves, and the non mirror image which is supposedly how everyone else sees us. Most of the time, I like what I see in the mirror image, welllllll most of it. I see a decently attractive guy, with a good head of hair, nice dark features and fairly tall, but i also see eyes that can look quite tired, and teeth that I wish were whiter. Overall though I think i'm decent. This is the person I am in my head when I am out and about...
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Don't Hide Your Emotions, You're So Sexy

The stereotypical image of a sexy man is someone big, buff, bit of body hair and with a big dick, well that I can sign off on (even if body expectations are wildly unrealistic), but the part that I can't sign off on is emotionless silent types. Many dating bios instead of saying about themselves or what they like in a partner, reel off all the things they don't want, and one of those things is regularly not wanting a partner who is a drama. Don't get me wrong, being with someone who is a constant whirlwind causing destruction in their wake isn't attractive, but I feel when people say they don't want drama it's also partially referencing emotional types. What is so wrong with being a man in touch with his emotions? I don't know about anyone else but I find a man with little emotional depth to be a massive turn off, like I might as well be chatting to a plank of fucking wood. From a young age, it's drilled into you that what's the most attractive kin...
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Isolation

As I am writing this, I am isolating with covid. It's taken me 2 and a half years to catch covid, and in the style of a typical instagay testing positive, I have to say “She got me gal”. I've worked in the NHS throughout the pandemic and before that for 6 years, and I was super cautious about everything I did, but recently I let that slide. I just went through a break up of sorts, where despite only being with the person for 2 months, I genuinely thought I meant someone special. I did meet someone special, but they aren't the different kind of special I was hoping they would be. After everything went tits up like it always does, I flew straight back onto the dating apps. I wanted to get myself into a different frame of mind and get excited about meeting other people, and this culminated in going clubbing again. I always said if I went to a club I would catch covid instantly, and despite calls from others to say that I was worrying too much, I was bloody right wasn...
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Gay Dating

In this blog post I've decided to be honest in an eye watering way, and today's blog post is about Gay Dating. I'm 28 years old, turning 29 in July and I have always been single. Why always? No not because I'm a sex crazed bachelor play boy, but instead it's a mixture of reasons. The multitude of reasons range from; I'm more interested in them, they are more interested in me, distance, sexual position, kink, age, basically anything you can think of really, but above everything else I've chosen to be single because I don't want to just settle for anybody. I've never had that special mutual feeling with someone that they were special, and if I've wanted to keep going because I saw something, they never do. I'm getting to the stage now where I feel I'm going to be the star of the sequel to 40 year old virgin: The 40 Year Old Singleton. Box office bomb. Rotten Tomato, F Cinema Score. When you are single for so long, you start to p...
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